CLICK TO GET STARTED: 11 excerpts for thought. With a mix of genuine forgiveness, honest communication, and a strong desire to make things better, any relationship can improve. Circumstances won’t change, however, as long as two people focus on each other’s faults. And the worst thing we can get from a less-than-perfect relationship is a negative attitude toward life. The selections from this book will guide you through the timeless insights of Colossians 3, wise counsel that can help you change the way you relate to others.